The people 4

Last month when I went to rajsthan one astrologer told me that I have very difficulty in believing people. And like other things he told I could not deny this also. Yes I can get suspicious sometimes. But then when you meet some people who make you believe in humanity, trusting people.

I met these 2 boys last week. I have been driving scooty since last 3 years buy still very lazy in taking care of one day while coming back home after long trip my scooty stopped in middle of highway. It made me so panicked as this has never happened before and I had no idea what to do now or what’s wrong either. There was no petrol pump or garage near. I started walking with scooty buy couldn’t continue after 10 -15 minutes. And due to my why nature could not ask anyone also. But then w boys on scooty stopped near asking what happened. They opened tank and told me it was empty. I looked blankly not knowing whteher to believe them or not and what to do next. They themselves started searching something when I asked what is it they said they were looking for pipe to transfer the petrol from their tank. What?? Did he just said what I think I heard. I think he did. They could not find pipe so asked my mom to come with o w of them to nearest petrol pump on their scooty. As there was no option my mother went with 1 of them, other one waited with me. I asked why is he doing this , wasting his time when he can actually go and no one even can blame him then he told me that when he was once traveling and his bike too stopped in the middle of the highway and at that time someone had helped him to carry his bike to nearer garage. So he thought he must help someone just to reply that. I was shocked d this 2018 and people still think like this. World is not that bad place then…. Isn’t it….??

So other one came back with my mother within 10 miutes and poured petrol in my bike. They even refused to take money my mother offered to them. We could not do more than giving them blessings.

They say be grateful to people you met in tour life and I always complained where are these people I should be grateful f1ir but I guess these are those…


The people-3

Raj, 4yr old boy playing in the garden ,with girl of my age. He was in our group when I went to vacation few years back. I thought she must be his aunt or something. But then he said “mumma” and I started looking for his mother but it took me a while to realize who he was talking to. Yes that girl 24-25yr was his mom. Unbelievable. How can someone marry so early. Only 2 of them had come with their family. Everyone in the group thought his father must be busy so could not make it to the trip. The boy was so naughty and talkative. Withing few days he became everyone’s favorite even though no one was his age. I have never seen him crying once during that week which very unusual for his age. There was one more thing which was unusual for his age. Throughout the trip he never ever mentioned his dad. Generally moms threatened their child on dad’s name when he is not around or that’s what happened with us and with others too. But his mom never did that. When I told my mom this she actually got angry on me for judging and I felt bad too so I left the idea. I sometime used to feel bad for her as when everyone was busy taking photos or admiring spots she was running around her son. She even missed few spots when he got tired or bored and stayed with him in hotel instead. she even used to sing his favourite songs like barbie girl whenever people used to play antakshari. I used to feel sad for her as she was my own age and doing all those stuffs which not only me but also ny friends were still afraid of. Once we were having lunch and she passed and one of the lady in our group asked my mom “did you know what has happened with her”?” I gave my mother see I told you look. Then that aunty told us that she got married at early age and got divorced when boy was not even year old as his father was alcoholic and used to hit her. So that answered most of my questions and I actually felt proud for the girl. As she had decided to raise her son own her own at so early age, specially in india where facing community is as difficult as getting hit by drunk husband. I so wanted to tell her that what she was doing was very brave and her son will be proud of her for this one day but could not do that as I never got to talk to her properly. Now when I look back I realise I should have said those things to her. Actually I have heard about solve parents only in tv serials , I know this may sound funny but yes that’s what happens in india. Girls stretch or adjust with husband or his family as much as they can before going fir divorce. But with her example I realise girl should know when to stop and that’s what is important as where to start is…??

Being judgemental

“You are pathetically judgmental” my friend shouted at me. I was about to say something but then shup up. Do I not know myself?? I have this weird habit of making opinion on people before even they say a word. Like if someones fat then she is ignorant about her Health. if someones thin then she is too self obsessed, beautiful people have attitude n so on….(ps- don’t judge me now bcuz it took great courage for me to share this). So when my friend told me this it made me think should I change myself…?? 

So from next day I decided to do simple thing, whenever I see someone n I remotely remember that person,I started smiling at them,if they smile back ,good , go n talk with them if they don’t smile back it’s ok atleast you tried, n you don’t no you might end up getting new friend… So all my judgemental fellas out there instead of thinking so much just talk a little….